Epictetus Stoic teachings
Epictetus: If you turn your will toward what is outside…
If you turn your will toward what is outside your control merely to impress another, you have ruined your purpose. Be content to practice philosophy; if you want the name, first make yourself worthy of it.
A paraphrase of a teaching associated with Epictetus, written for modern readers. Not a transcription of a copyrighted edition.
The desire to impress can make us abandon our own judgment with surprising speed. We may spend beyond our means, agree with views we do not hold, or pretend enthusiasm for a life that does not suit us. The approval gained this way is fragile because it depends on continuing the performance. Today, notice one decision influenced by the imagined opinion of others. Would you make the same choice if no one could see it? If the answer is no, pause before giving away your time, money, or voice. You do not need to reject all praise or become indifferent to every relationship. You need a center that praise cannot purchase. Let the quality of your character matter more than the image you are trying to maintain.
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