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Marcus Aurelius Meditations

Marcus Aurelius: Dost thou grieve that thou dost weigh…

Dost thou grieve that thou dost weigh but so many pounds, and not three hundred rather? Just as much reason hast thou to grieve that thou must live but so many years, and not longer. For as for bulk and substance thou dost content thyself with that proportion of it that is allotted unto thee, so shouldst thou for time.

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We accept physical limits without much protest. Few of us lose sleep because we are not seven feet tall or built like a professional linebacker. Yet we rage against the fact that our lives also have limits. We want more years, more chances, more time to get everything right. Marcus says the two complaints are alike: both reject the portion reality has given us. That does not mean health, longevity, and safety are unimportant. It means that wanting more time must not become an excuse for wasting the time already in your hands. The question is not whether your life is as long as you would prefer. It is whether you are using this afternoon honestly. Stop bargaining with an imaginary future. Send the message, do the work, take the walk, make the apology. A finite life becomes fuller through attention and action, not through wishing it were infinite.

Mortality Acceptance Purpose Perspective Fear Anxiety Overthinking

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