Marcus Aurelius Meditations
Marcus Aurelius: The joy that thou takest in the…
The joy that thou takest in the exercise of bounty, is not yet grounded upon a due ratiocination and right apprehension of the nature of things. Thou dost exercise it as yet upon this ground barely, as a thing convenient and fitting; not, as doing good to thyself, when thou dost good unto others.
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Generosity is not merely a nice thing to do for other people. It is good for the person who practices it. Marcus is pushing beyond the shallow idea that helping is admirable because society approves of it. When you give freely, support someone, share credit, or make room for another person’s needs, you exercise a part of your own nature. You become less trapped inside the narrow prison of self-interest. This does not mean giving until you are depleted or letting others exploit you. Good generosity includes judgment. But it recognizes that a life built entirely around getting is impoverished, even when it is successful. Notice how different it feels to use your resources—time, attention, money, knowledge—to strengthen someone else. Today, do one useful thing that cannot be repaid immediately. Do it not for credit, but because being helpful is one way to become the person you want to be.
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