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Marcus Aurelius Meditations

Marcus Aurelius: Whatsoever dieth and falleth, however…

Whatsoever dieth and falleth, however and wheresoever it die and fall, it cannot fall out of the world, here it have its abode and change, here also shall it have its dissolution into its proper elements. The same are the world's elements, and the elements of which thou dost consist. And they when they are changed, they murmur not; why shouldest thou?

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Everything that dies returns to the same world it came from. A leaf falls, a building is demolished, a body changes, and the materials continue in another form. Marcus finds a strange peace in this: nothing is thrown outside reality when it ends. We are part of a process much larger than our individual preferences. That does not make loss painless. Grief is the cost of loving what is temporary. But it can soften the belief that death and change are violations of nature. The elements that make us up have been changing forever, without complaint. Why do we demand a permanent arrangement for ourselves? This is not an argument against mourning; it is an invitation to mourn without rage at the basic terms of existence. Today, when you notice something ending, honor what it was. Then remember that change is not exile from the world. It is one of the ways the world continues.

Mortality Acceptance Perspective Grief Fear

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