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Seneca: Atreus: Who would refuse fortune's overflowing…

Atreus: Who would refuse fortune's overflowing gifts? Thyestes: One who knows how swiftly they can be withdrawn.

A paraphrase of a teaching associated with Seneca, written for modern readers. Not a transcription of a copyrighted edition.

An attractive offer is not automatically a good one. New opportunities can come wrapped in urgency, flattery, prestige, or the fear that you will never get another chance. Those feelings make careful judgment harder. Before saying yes, look beyond the immediate reward. What obligations come with it? What will it cost your time, health, relationships, or independence? Is the person offering it trustworthy? Could you walk away later if the terms changed? This does not mean living suspiciously or refusing every benefit. It means remembering that good fortune is unstable and that some gifts create dependence. A wise acceptance leaves room for your values. When an opportunity is sound, it can survive a night of consideration and a few direct questions. Choose what you can receive without selling the parts of yourself you most need to keep.

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