Seneca Moral essays
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It is, therefore, most commonly 419found in the worst people; there are old women and girls who are affected by the tears of the greatest criminals, and who, if they could, would let them out of prison. Pity considers a man’s misfortunes and does not consider to what they are due: mercy is combined with reason.
The passage follows a public-domain translation of Seneca’s moral essays. The reading beside it is ours.
Feeling bad for someone is not always the same as helping them. We have all watched a friend repeat a destructive pattern and wanted to rescue them from every consequence. That impulse is understandable, but it can become sentimental and careless. Mercy needs judgment. It looks at the person’s suffering and also at the choices, obligations, and risks involved. A judge who ignores every fact because the defendant cries is not compassionate. Neither is a parent who removes every difficulty from a child’s path. Real kindness asks: what support would genuinely help this person become better? Sometimes that is comfort. Sometimes it is a boundary. Sometimes it is allowing a consequence to teach what a lecture cannot. Do not harden yourself against others’ pain. But do not let emotion hand the steering wheel to someone who is suffering. Bring both heart and reason to the decision.
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