Seneca Moral essays
Seneca: Think of your son’s handsome person, which you…
Think of your son’s handsome person, which you had guarded in perfect purity among all the temptations of a voluptuous capital. Who could have undertaken to keep that clear of all diseases, so that it might preserve its beauty of form unimpaired even to old age?
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We mourn not only the person who died, but the future we had pictured for them: health, beauty, accomplishments, old age, and all the scenes we assumed would come. Seneca asks us to see how uncertain that imagined future always was. No amount of vigilance can guarantee that a body stays untouched by illness, age, or misfortune. This is not meant to make us careless with those we love. Care matters. It means refusing the impossible burden of believing we could have secured every outcome through enough worry. When someone dies young, the mind can become a detective searching for the one action that would have preserved them forever. Be compassionate with that impulse, then loosen its grip. Love was never control. Let remembrance honor the life they actually lived, not only the future you could not protect.
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