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Seneca: Wrongdoing often comes back upon the one who…

Wrongdoing often comes back upon the one who taught it.

A paraphrase of a teaching associated with Seneca, written for modern readers. Not a transcription of a copyrighted edition.

What we model can outlive the moment in which we model it. A manager who rewards corner-cutting may later be surprised when those shortcuts are used against the team. A parent who solves every conflict with contempt may eventually hear that same contempt returned. This is not a mystical punishment; it is a practical consequence of instruction. People learn from what we permit, praise, and demonstrate. That makes our influence a serious responsibility. Before showing someone how to bend a rule, mislead a customer, or humiliate a rival, ask what habit you are helping create. You may not control every decision another person makes, but you can refuse to train them in conduct you would fear receiving yourself. Today, make your example match the kind of environment and relationships you want to live in.

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