Seneca Moral essays
Seneca: You ask me, whither does all this tend? To…
You ask me, whither does all this tend? To prove, I answer, that no one should imagine himself to be safe from anger, seeing that it rouses up even those who are naturally gentle and quiet to commit savage and violent acts.
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Do not assume you are immune to anger because you are usually patient. The quietest person can snap when tired, embarrassed, frightened, or repeatedly provoked. That is not a reason for shame; it is a reason for preparation. We do not wait for a kitchen fire to learn where the extinguisher is. Notice your early signals: rushing speech, a hot face, rehearsing what you will say to win, treating a small delay as a personal offense. Then have a response ready. Leave the room, delay the reply, drink water, or say that you need ten minutes. Gentleness is not a permanent trait that protects us automatically. It is a practice that needs support, especially under pressure. Assume the capacity for anger is in you, and build habits that keep it from becoming an action you regret.
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