Skip to content
School of Stoics

Marcus Aurelius Stoic teachings

Marcus Aurelius: Things pursued or avoided do not rush…

Things pursued or avoided do not rush at you; in a sense you move toward them. Keep your judgment steady, and they too will be calm, and you will not appear to chase or flee them.

A paraphrase of a teaching associated with Marcus Aurelius, written for modern readers. Not a transcription of a copyrighted edition.

Your internal pace affects the people around you. When you panic, rush, or treat every minor disruption as urgent, others often become more anxious as well. A calmer judgment creates room for better decisions. This does not mean moving slowly when speed is required or pretending danger is harmless. It means refusing to add drama before you understand the facts. In a tense moment, lower your voice, identify the immediate priority, and choose one action rather than five frantic ones. If you lead others, your steadiness is especially useful because people look to you for cues about what matters. If you do not lead formally, you can still be the person who brings clarity instead of gossip and escalation. Today, notice whether you are chasing approval, fleeing discomfort, or reacting to every signal. Pause and let your choices, rather than your impulses, set the tone.

Control Temperance Wisdom Perspective Anxiety Stress Overthinking

Related passages