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Seneca: The position of all busy men is unhappy, but…

The position of all busy men is unhappy, but most unhappy of all is that of those who do not even labour at their own affairs, but have to regulate their rest by another man’s sleep, their walk by another man’s pace, and whose very love and hate, the freest things in the world, are at another’s bidding.

The passage follows a public-domain translation of Seneca’s moral essays. The reading beside it is ours.

The deepest exhaustion is not always from having too much to do. Sometimes it comes from living entirely at someone else’s command. Your sleep, your pace, your opinions, even your likes and dislikes become organized around a boss, an audience, a partner, or a social circle. You may be busy all day and still have done almost nothing that was consciously yours. Few of us can abandon every obligation. We have jobs, families, financial realities, and responsibilities that matter. But Seneca wants us to preserve an inner jurisdiction no employer or trend can own. You can choose how you interpret a demand, what values you will not betray, and where you place a boundary. You can also begin building practical freedom through skills, savings, honest conversations, and simpler needs. Today, identify one area where you have outsourced your judgment. Before asking what others expect, ask what you believe is right. Then make one small decision from that place.

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