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Seneca: We must abandon many things we call good but…

We must abandon many things we call good but have become dependent on. Otherwise courage withers, for it needs testing. Greatness of spirit also disappears unless it can regard as small what the crowd treats as most desirable.

A paraphrase of a teaching associated with Seneca, written for modern readers. Not a transcription of a copyrighted edition.

Dependence often arrives wearing the clothes of convenience. A habit may begin as a treat, a shortcut, or a harmless way to unwind. Over time, it can become something we feel unable to do without. That loss of choice is worth taking seriously, whether the object is a drink, constant reassurance, shopping, a device, or the urge to complain. The point is not to prove moral superiority through discomfort. It is to make sure that comfort has not become your master. Choose one small attachment today and create a little space around it. Delay it. Go without it for an afternoon. Notice the thoughts that appear when you cannot immediately satisfy the urge. You may find that the discomfort is survivable and the need less absolute than it seemed. Voluntary restraint reminds us that we can act from judgment. That ability supports courage when life imposes a hardship we did not choose.

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